LOVE IS IN THE AIR

A quote to share with all of you first.

"Too many people spend money they haven't earn, to buy things they don't want, to impress people they don't like".

How true that is. Being in the finance industry, I've seen my fair share of such people. God bless them.

Alot of random pics and sorry, I don't have time to photoshop, so make do with the not-so-pretty colours but colour your eyes with the awesome hunk & babe!

Right, before I start to make people puke, I'd better stop.

Our first time at Iluma, to watch Ghosts of Girlfriends Past. I gave him this skinny black tie for our mini 6 mths being together.

This was rather recent, our 3rd past weekend in which there was that tinge of unhappiness cos things weren't going according to what I wanted, and b being a little impatient at Vivo carpark. Hmm.. b you gotta learn to be more patient, less agitated when there's a crowd, and learn to love going on walks with me ok. Anyway, it was nothing major. Lately he made up for it by bringing me to this place at Labrador Park. I love the place, minus it's songs that was a major turnoff. Imagine a chiong Justin Timberlake. Ooh!

The quality of the pic kinda sucks cos it's at night and you can't expect much from my not so good camera phone. This place is fantastic for solemnization. By the pool, in a glass house, high up a park. The real thing really looks amazing!

The sitting area at the bar has huge and cosy sofa, which you can even lie down.

I had a drink called Blue Shark.

This was taken last weekend at Vivo. On the way. Raining dogs.

Carls Junior. B don't quite fancy beef chilli cheese fries.

I love b's hair that day. :)

This is quite random. Check this out. B took using his Daimond 2.

The sky looked amazing! No photoshop at all k.

This was a random day while walking at Paya Lebar and I saw these 3 stray dogs. Cute.

Lately, I've been sorta busy with Lisa's ROM. I'm soooooooooooo excited for her. Though it's not mine, but the process seems tiring yet fun and exicting. Afterall, it's meant to be once in a lifetime thing. It has gotta be good right?

She will be holding it at Bukit Merah. Have been going through bridal magazines with her, talking about ideas etc etc. In Style Wedding, there were 2 pics that caught my eye.

I love this pic below. Womanly yet so stylish with the hat. In future I would also love to have such a wedding shoot too. I don't like the normal wedding portfolio, looks very cliche. I wanna look like those in the magazines. :)

This pic is Charlene Choi. The actual pic's colour of cos is alot prettier. I like this look too.

Sindy recently also shared with me about how they're planning for her best friend's boyfriend's proposal. This is copyright, so nobody copies this idea ok. I'm just sharing cos I find it really sweet and original.

They're gonna get random strangers or perhaps friends at Orchard road to give out ballons to her. So example, a random stranger A, pass a balloon to Girlfirend. Stranger B pass, Stranger C pass etc etc. So the girl will feel weird why is she receving all the ballons. Then, lastly, boyfriend will stand somewhere and give her a metallic heart shaped balloon to propose to her.

Tell me, how sweet can that be???

Heh... It's wonderful to hear such stories. I guess every girl would love to fit into a gown one day and marry their Mr Prince.

Because of Lisa's ROM and the wedding vibe going around, I spent some time to go through a few websites. I found these. There's a particular wedding bridal shop Silhoutte Atelier in Singapore which I find the gowns are really pretty.

My gown is goona look very fluffy. Hoho~

These are the type of pictures that I want.

I love Victorian styles.

This colour pic below is a must have. I love it's hue.

Ok, that's about all.

I'm typing this entry at b's place while waiting for him back from appointment. Hee...

Love is definitely in the air!

HONEY B

Somehow yesterday my bb is extremely sweet. So I must quickly pen it down. Cos why?

Usually my b prefers not to hold my hand near the office area nor give me a goodbye kiss when we part at the mrt station cos he says it's near office and colleagues may still be around. Sometimes he says cos clinets may be around. Ok, fair enough. But then again, sometimes he will still hold my hand or hug me at the oddest hours so I cannot fathom what he is thinking also.

Anyway, so today while sending me to the station before heading back to office to look for dad, we were standing right smack in the centre with alot of people at around 7 plus. I didn't go into the gantry yet as the arrival of the next train was in 5 mins. He knew what I was waiting for.

He says it's electric shock (he normally says this to me) but today he decided to give me a peck when I challenged him. I told him a peck on my face only what then he said:

"Why must it be there?"

 And he gave me a peck on my lips instead.

Hmmm.. be it a challenge or what, when he gave me the peck, I was smiling to myself for like 10seconds even after I passed the gantry.

I don't need an LV or Tiffany (although having one is a plus too!) to be happy. Little gestures like this makes the day happier too.

Then, the next sweet thing is bud changed his msn profile pic to our pic on msn. :)

So I copied him and put the same pic too. Not only did he put this pic, he reminded me of our first date at Ambrosia. That was when we chilled out together as then 'buddies'. We had fun on that day.

Heh. So, just wanted to record down yesterday's sweetness so that we both will remember it forever. It meant alot to me. :)

Yesterday was also a good day other than the bb incident. My company's partner was having a product launch at Great World GV Max, so we were there for the launch as well as a movie treat. We watched Ice Age3 for free! Frankly speaking, I think it's nicer than Transformers. Though it's of relatively no linkage, cos that's the 2 most recent shows we watched. In comparison, I enjoyed Ice Age more. Maybe cos it's cute.

I like the baby dinos!

Today's lunch with Dom, we went Iluma at Noodle Empire then we came across this newly opened ice-cream place, Marble Slab.

I love the place! Not exactly that kinda cosy place, but I like their counters. Their operations manager took time to chat with us.

When I saw this I wanted to buy for b, but sadly, it's filled with ice-cream so there's no way I can pack it and give him.

It's so pretty right? I think most girls will like. But dunno why I like to buy pretty things for bb. Pardon the pics cos I'm in office right now doing administrative stuffs and getting kidna bored, so decided to blog for a little while.

Go to Marble Slab! Good stuff!

GHOSTS OF GIRLFRIENDS PAST

This movie I'm giving it a 9.5 out of 10. I think it's near perfect. The storyline especially, the cast as well. I'm glad I watched it at Iluma today with b. I teared quite a few times because it was so touching!

Took a short break from work and caught it in the noon hours. Iluma's theatre isn't too bad and the passageway is pretty nice looking too. It's my first time watching a movie there.

This story is about a guy who's been hurt in love before, hence became a cassanova. It reminded me of a friend whom I know who became just exactly like the male lead Mead (Matthew McConaughey). He's been hurt in love not once but quite a few times, which came to a point he just see girls as fun. This is quite sad actually. However I'm glad he's now with a girlfriend whom he's been with for a couple of years.

However, when I asked him if he loves his gf because lately he's having trouble in his relationship, he didn't answer me. I guess love is subjective. However he's willing to give up on the relationship because of his career. This again leads me to think, does he really love his gf? Or maybe he's with her but have never learnt how to let go of the past?

I'm sure alot of us out there have been hurt in love, hurt by your love before. Does it make sense then, for people who've been hurt in love before to give less to the next partner you have?

My answer is no. Each person is different. Otherwise don't go into a relationship because in the process, you may just hurt somebody who give him/her all.

I've learnt that and will make sure not to fall into that again, no matter how great the pain can be. Because we must all learn from the bad things in life to make us a stronger person. Only then life will be colourful. You bring along all the memories you have or had and when you think back, it should make you smile.

Still, many people will tell me, "Oh, I'm afraid of the pain."

Isn't that what love is all about? To experience the kind of feeling which I have no idea how to describe, probably magical is the word to use and the pain that comes with it is the risk of feeling the esctasy. There is nothing in this world that is so amazing other than love.

In the story, Mead would breakup with girls after making them fall in love with him. Or maybe they think they're in love with him. All he wanted was a no strings attached, casual one night stand affair. Nothing more. In the process he might've hurt some girls though in the show most were portrayed as bitches, but ya, in real life, he might have made an inoncent girl fall for him.

So tell me again, do you know how to love somebody? When do you know if you actually love someone?

Will the realisation only come when the person whom you kiss and hug decide to leave and only regret kicks in? Will you regret if you never tell them how much you love them and they're gone from your life, forever?     

To love, as least to me, it means no lies, alot of affection, special, honesty, trust, care, generousity, understanding, sweet, patient, kind, loves my family, spending time with my family..... I can't think of anymore as yet. When we talk about unconditional, does all of that add up to unconditional? Maybe yes, maybe no. 

Love is a weird thing sometimes.

ZOUK, SISTA'S BIRTHDAY, SWIM + TAN & MANY RANDOMS!

As you can tell from my title, there're way loadfuls to talk about. I'm actually quite lethargic right now, but oh well, I need to entertain myself and my readers right? So to kickstart, here's my sista's birthday first!

Zouk was on 19 June which is the same day as my sister's birthday. Before going to club with my colleagues, my family and I had dinner at Xin Wang.

My mom constantly have this shocking looking pair of eyes whenever she takes pictures. Lol...

Checkout my eye shadow. Made an effort to doll myself up which is like super long since I used heavy makeup.

I made my parents do the heart shap love , finger to finger action. There you can tell my mom is so fascinated by the idea she laughed non stop. I'm their happy nut!

They kinda failed though but kudos to their spontaneous effort!

Mango mango here I come!

Then it was Zouk with let's see, Me, Bb, Lisa, Love, Sindy, Dad, Oi Peng & frens.

Outside Zouk with Oi Peng. Bb refused to go and walk behind Grand Copthrone when I told him it's romantic over there. Lazy bum!

We were the earliest so we entertained ourselves by taking a few pics first.

Then came Melisa and her boyfriend Kenneth, whom she call him as Love. I think that's a very nice name versus darling or dear isn't it? 

Both of us wore white, so they said we looked alike, like sisters! She's gonna ROM on 24th July, I'm so happy for her! My frens around me are slowly getting off the shelves. Lol!

I told oi Peng bb looked like gorilla here. Hoho! That was the tiny secret I was whispering to Oi Peng the other night and we were laughing our heads off.

I know b is very xin fu with 2 chiobus in the pic with him. He looks dreamy. No b, you're not dreaming.

See dad's classic look! We have Love, Lisa, Sindy, Dad (Derrick) and b!

The gal in front of b is Angie. She's Oi Peng's friend.

I like bb hugging me like this. I also like to hug him the other way round too.

Whispering sweet nothings. Ok like real, he didn't. Try that next time b. Maybe my legs will become numb or something. Lol! 

The guys were meddling with my diamond bracelet. Even guys are into diamonds. And they say diamonds are girls best friends. Hmm... We have to rethink this phrase.

Ok, but it wil never fail to make a girl happy!

Giving cash to each other. Make a guess, what is it for?

For the lychee maritni!!

I think with the lychee martini, it's so tete-a-tete and chi chi tai tai style. Act class! No la, we do have class ok.

End of Zouk night.

In dreamland we went.

Actually before Zouk, on a Thursday was a one day trip to JB with my colleagues as well. However for that day's event, the pictures were not taken using my camera, and although it's been uploaded in my facebook already, it's a chore to edit so many pics at one go. So that will have to wait till the next time I'm free then I will update my blog ok.

Today b and I went church again. Last week we went to the celebrities special at City Harvest, it was great! With singers like Milk, Vanness, F.I.R., Liu Geng Hong, Allan Moo etc etc to perform. The message was excellent too!

After which we went swimming and tanning at Tampines.

I went with The Sales Success Handbook (every successful sales person should bring along this type of book with you lol.....) instead of b actually, cos he was busy reading and sleeping. Haha.. so while he was sleeping with the book on his face, I entertained myself by taking pictures. 

Lying on his favourite rainbow bedsheet on the hot ground of the tanning area at Tampines pool. B was very sweet to buy me the shades at JB when we went on the trip as he said without a good pair of shades I cannot go sun tan with him cos it'll spoil my eyes.

My huge white sunnies.

Trying to take an artsy shot.

Here's the randoms. Since I'm talking about swimming, this was taken the last time we went swimming.

Bb is a bookworm.

My sleeping dude!

On some days when I feel emo I like to take this type of pictures.

Make a guess which carpark is this? Isn't it pretty?

In my room, drinking barcadi.

Another random and a picture I kinda like. Us in our corporate wear.

And we saw Raving Rabbit!

So I asked b to take a pic with the ugly looking rabbit.

Another random, in a cinema. B can never take flash light. See how hard he tried to open his eyes with the blinding flash.

This was just last week after PC show, celebrated b's bro, Lucas 21st birthday at Crystsal Jade.

Lastly, the ROM my dearest sonnie invited earlier this month. Congrats sonnie! As I said, my friends are off the shelves, one by one.

Haha! The next one I'm looking forward to attend is Lisa and then it will be Jing Wei's next year!

Time to say "That's All Folks!" Gosh I'm super super tired now. Tomorrow is Monday, yet another week to fight on!

And I will..................

"GO GO JIAYOU!"

EXPECTATIONS

Are my expectations too high or what?

I don't like to have a bad conversation hanging down there because it will make me hate sleeping. Because the reason's so simple. I get insomnia.

Even though I'm dead tired too after a day's appointments.

I guess not so now. I'm like wide awake, listening to up tempo music which strangely makes me feel comforted whenever I'm unhappy. It's already 1.27am.

My mind is blank, I don't know what else to write now. Probably whatever's gonna come out of it are all angry and maybe irrational words.

I shall spare the agony of people who read my blog and I will channel it in my diary instead.

Perhaps one fine day when I read it, I can laugh it off and feel that I've wasted a piece of paper, henceforth destroying the environment by that bit.